Does a woman starting contact take the “thrill of the chase” away from a guy?Sincerely, Susan, Idaho Falls, ID Answer Dear Susan, Thank you for your great question.and, in fact, get you exactly what you want: responses, phone numbers, dates, and success.Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone.Keep trying, and I think you’ll agree that the risk of rejected communication is very small, especially when compared to the reward of meeting someone who could be the love of your life!

Sometimes when you request communication with a match, they may decline and close you out, and that may hurt. Warren, As a woman I feel a little strange about making the first move, and yet I see matches I would really like to begin exchanging messages with.If I initiate communication with them, will I come across as not much of a challenge?In the early steps of Guided Communication it does not matter who initiates communication because both you and your match are gathering enough information to know whether there is enough of a spark to take your communication offline and begin dating face to face.Think of initiating communication as beginning a friendly conversation with no expectations, just a natural curiosity to know more about your match and their interests.